Puro decided to stay on in Pakistan
with Rashid. She accepted the fact that she was married to Rashid. She
appreciated him as a person and had also started developing feelings for
him.She wanted him in her life. He was a good man who had proved his commitment
towards her when he helped Puro rescue and reunite Lajjo with her family. He
had also protected Puro from the communal strife. She also realised that Rashid
truly and genuinely loved her and had gone out of his way to help Puro and
other women caught in the difficult times.
After helping her sister-in-law to
get back to her family Puro decided to take a stand for every woman and girls
being harassed in the society. Rashid was of course always ready to help his
wife in every step that she took. It was his way of seeking penance for the
sins he had committed including abduction of Puro. Rashid also started creating
awareness about women empowerment and their security. Since 1947 both husband
and wife committed themselves to the cause of rescuing women and girls from
forced marriages, disowned by families and other ills of the time and reuniting
them with their lost families where necessary and possible. Puro worked on just
one thought that no woman or girl should be a ‘pinjar’. She wanted to change the outlook of people towards girls
being ‘paraya dhan’.
Puro built a strong name for
herself in the society with her work. She faced criticism and social alienation
due to her work in the public. She took her cause further and started a school
to educate women and girls to ensure their economic independence. She had seen
her own plight and that of Lajjo in recent past and believed women had to look
after themselves. Puro and Rashid, despite their own financial constraints,
opened their home to young women who had no support and families. They faced
severe opposition to the point where people tried to set their home on fire and
made it difficult for them to move about in public.
Their cause spread undaunted and
more people got associated with them thus reaching out to more villages and
houses. While initially the newly formed government ignored them and their
visits and petitions, it grudgingly appreciated the work they did.
Puro started writing a book on
women empowerment and everything she went through in her life. It had her
voice, fears, experiences, joys and tears and her resilience. She wrote how
much she missed her family and why she decided to stay back in Pakistan with
Rashid. She also penned her thoughts about how her circumstances made her
strong in her own way. If she had not faced all those conditions, she would
never know or understand the time they were in. She stated that phase made her
stronger and gave her the strength to fight all the problems that would come
her way. The book once published secured deep respect and support as much as it
earned criticism. The book gave her a wholly different identity.
Puro and Rashid built a
non-governmental organisation and furthered their cause of female education and
empowerment. Their efforts gradually started bearing fruits. Puro became a role
model for many. Rashid’s support to his wife and what she believed in is also
no less commendable.
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